The world is moving at a very fast pace.Every person in this world is struggling for one or the other thing.Some people are striving hard for the money.Some people are striving hard for food. Some people have got enough but still, they are not satisfied and they strive hard for more. Every person has a different story, a different life.Time is one such thing which every person lacks amidst of so much struggle.No person has time for the other person.There is so much scarcity of time. Isn’t it?
But there is one such activity for which every person has the potential to take out time from his/her schedule, no matter how much busy the person is.And that activity is- Judging others!!!
The following line fits well for most of the people today….
“Amateur analysers and connoisseur judges”
It is really very surprising and shocking at the same time to find that most of the people today have enough time to judge others but don’t have time to analyse others’ situations.
A teacher scolding and beating a student for scoring low marks in an exam without finding out the reason behind it is one such example of judging without analysing.The time spent( or rather wasted) by the teacher on scolding and beating the student would have been utilised better on analysing the student’s situation and guiding him/her.It is a normal practice in most of the schools.In most of the schools and colleges, teachers and professors give more importance to the top performers whereas other students are considered as dumb and poor. Even while handling the big responsibilities, teachers always prefer the bright students to the not so bright ones.
It is shocking to learn that how a student is judged based on his/her marks and is tagged as “bright” or “dull”. I have seen many people who were not able to fare well in their studies due to some problems and were tagged as “dull” by the so-called teachers.But later on in their lives, those “dull” students were much more successful than those “bright” students.
Looking at a fat person and passing the judgement like, “He eats a lot.He doesn’t have control on his hunger and blah blah blah….” and making fun of him is a very common thing because most of the people do it.But analysing that fat persons’ situation is what no one bothers to do. Might he be suffering from a serious disease which is having a negative impact on his body weight but who cares to understand.
Any kind of harsh judgement would always cause a negative impact.Some people have the mental strength to deal with the negative judgments but some don’t have it.There had been many such cases which resulted in the death of the person just because nobody understood him and cared to guide him and leading him to commit suicide.
It feels very painful when you work really hard for your goal but fail to achieve it and you are ultimately judged by some random people who would leave no stone unturned to lower your worth.
There is only one piece of advice for my fellow misjudged and hardworking people- Do not give a damn about those a**holes who misjudge you.Just keep doing your work.
My one piece of advice for those who are in the habit of judging others- Keep your bullshit judgement in your a**.Just focus on your shitty life.
And just mind your judgement!!!
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